Stop assuming your husband knows you're upset

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It took me a while to realize that just because I may have appeared frustrated and upset, didn't mean my husband could pick up on it. Men are wired completely different than us women, and for good reason. 

Earlier on in my marriage I would mope around for days and take on the woe is me attitude before I even thought to just tell him what was wrong. I never assumed that he wouldn't pick up on it. The truth of the matter is though he really just didn't know anything was wrong. By  me not telling him what what wrong it just built up resentment and bitterness towards him. That is not healthy to carry around in a marriage. So over communicate. Let your husband know immediately whats wrong so you can tackle the problem head on. You will be doing yourself and your husband a favor. Trust me.